What’s your story? I was born in Guatemala, but I’ve lived in several countries since I was a child. I decided to pursue a career in fashion. When I arrived in France, I got a master’s degree in luxury management, but my professional experience was mainly in ready-to-wear sales. I managed to get an internship in events management, but fashion has always remained my real passion. Then I got a job as a sales assistant when a premium boutique opened. I was in the process of climbing the ladder to become shop manager when I became pregnant with my first child. I decided to take a year’s break to look after him.
Have you struggled to get your career back on track after your pregnancy? If so, how did you manage? The period of reflection I took after my pregnancy led me to give up my career in ready-to-wear and to start studying again. I chose to do an apprenticeship in dressmaking. It was just after the COVID-19, so it was difficult to find an employer for an apprenticeship contract. I needed to get back into the professional world after looking after my son, so going back to school with teenagers was a bit strange at first, but I managed to get back into a calmer professional rhythm thanks to the sandwich course. At the end of my training, I was offered further training in retouching and sales, which I decided to do while changing employer. At the end of this new course, I was offered a permanent contract, and that’s when I became pregnant with my second child.
What did you learn about yourself during and after your pregnancy? For my first pregnancy, learning about my new role as a mother was a huge upheaval. I had to learn to love myself again after giving birth, to accept that my body had changed, and to overcome the baby blues. The constant fear of not making the right decisions was omnipresent. However, for my second pregnancy, what surprised me most was breastfeeding. I benefited so much from the experience, it was a very special moment, something I hadn’t felt in the same way during my first pregnancy.
What advice would you give to a young mother who is struggling to get her career back on track after a pregnancy? I think that any change requires time to adapt and that asking for help from those close to you without hesitation is essential. Personally, going to the park and meeting other mums to share our experiences has really helped me not to feel alone.
If you thought about your future before you knew you were pregnant, how did you imagine it? What about work? As far as family is concerned, I always thought I’d have two children, and that’s actually the case. As for my career, it’s not at all what I had originally envisaged. My initial plan was to succeed in the fashion industry, in particular as a Visual Merchandiser, my basic degree, and to run a business or manage a large company.
Have your goals changed? Taking a break to look after my eldest son and leaving my job as a manager definitely closed certain doors in the career I wanted to pursue. I don’t regret it, because I like change so much that it didn’t bother me. After that, I did two years of training with different employers. I grew up with the need to adapt and change regularly, and I think that’s what enabled me to reintegrate into the professional world without difficulty after my pregnancies.
Do you think it’s possible to realise the dreams you had before? I think my dreams have now merged with those of my husband and children. I don’t want to sacrifice the precious time of my children’s childhood for work. I do take time out for myself sometimes, but I know that time with my children goes quickly, so for now I’m enjoying every moment with them and putting my professional plans on standby.